Whatever you do, don't panic

Earlier this month I recalled my first computer, the mighty Amstrad 1512, and how I never envisaged being in a position now to help other elderly people (yep, I did say other) get to grips with current technology.

As my reader may be over 21, I thought I’d share by top ten tips for Silver Surfers

1. Be patient – everyone has difficulties and frustrations when learning new skills.

2. Ask for help.

3. Make your life easier - technology is about enhancing your life. Ask for advice on how the computer can help you make your life richer or more interesting.

4. Learn at your own pace - don’t compare yourself with your neighbour. Everyone comes to computers with differing backgrounds and experiences and everyone has a different learning style.

5. Set realistic goals – if you’re not sure what these are, discuss with a computer mentor or a friend. It is better to find one useful website, or send one short email, than end up with a head full of instructions and no outcome.

6. Practice makes perfect - don’t be shy or embarrassed about repeating things you’re learning time and time again until you feel you’ve got it. "Perseverance makes experts of us all"

7. Don’t stare at the computer screen for too long - remember to take regular breaks to give your eyes a rest.

8. Have fun with it - once you get the gist of it you will be able to use if for all sorts of things you are interested in including accessing useful information, developing interests and hobbies and playing games (crosswords, cards, bridge, chess and solitaire). You can also use a computer to listen to music and radio or watch TV and films.

9. Speak to others - ask those who have learnt how to use a computer how it worked for them when they first used it.

10. Don’t panic! - don’t be scared of making mistakes, you won’t break it. It will all make sense in the end!